Thursday, September 11, 2014

Thursday (9/11/2014)

Update:

Yesterday I visited my prosthetist for some adjustments to my leg.  She added some additional padding around the knee and really tightened that up.  I was amazed at the difference that made going up and down stairs.  I was able to walk up relying more upon my leg muscles and less on the cane and the handrail.  I also was walking slightly on the outside of my foot and the adjustment in the knee straightened that out as well.

Next we looked at why when I switch from my shoes to my boots, my left leg is shorter in the boots.  It is fine in the shoes but short in the boots!?!  We couldn’t find a reason; but after adding a 3/8 inch pad in my left boot, I walked normally again and my hips were level.  It feels much better now than before when I  definitely had a limp in my gait (or a hitch in my giddy-up).

I next asked about getting my prosthetic leg wet.  I was fairly certain that I was told not to do it.  But it just struck me that as a pastor I need to be able to do baptisms.  My denomination practices baptism by immersion which means that I stand in the pool of waist-deep water along with the person being baptized.  So I was wondering how I could do that.  They’ll be ordering a water leg for me, a special liner-like material that covers the exposed part of my residual leg and goes down over the top of my prosthesis.  This is supposed to water proof my leg.  I have to cover the locking mechanism with packing tape so water doesn’t get in that way and coat the set screws in my ankle with Vaseline to keep them from rusting.   I also have to have a pair of water shoes to wear.  I just bought a pair at Scheels but I never checked to see how they fit on the shell foot of the prosthesis-I just fit them to my right foot.  My right foot and my shell foot are technically the same size, however since my shell foot is rigid, it makes a big difference how easily a shoe goes on it. I have to go back to the store and get a second pair that are one size larger for use on my prosthesis.  Fortunately they are on clearance sale so it is very reasonable to do that. 

Thought for the Day:

I spent some time this morning sorting through clothes that no longer fit me well with my diminishing waistline.  I did that about two months ago but it was time to do it again.  As I removed the last of the 46 inch waistlines and size 18 shirts from my closet, it struck me how easy it is to fill our lives with clutter.  I have to admit that there were some shirts that I hung onto for too long because of an emotional attachment.  “How can I give up this shirt?  It is one of my favorites?”  It doesn’t fit anymore.  It doesn’t look good on me so why hang onto something that I definitely won’t wear again?  I am also amazed at how long it takes to sort through everything.  You accumulate things one or two at a time and I don’t remember gathering this much stuff; but over time it all piles up.  And it takes a long time to go through a closet full of clothes to try them on to see if they still fit.

And this just doesn’t happen with clothes.  I can go to the garage and look at the tools, the nuts and bolts, along with various miscellaneous stuff that I don’t even remember that I own until I need to dig through the pile in an attempt to find something.  I couldn’t believe how many shoes that I got rid of after my amputation.  I have a number of coats that are already too big for me; but I’ll wait until spring to get rid of them and get one more season of use before I turn them in to some place like Goodwill. 

Most of our closets are stuffed with clothes that we no longer wear, don’t fit, or we don’t care to wear anymore.  There is no room to hang up one more shirt or put one more piece of laundry in our chest of drawers.  Even if we want to there is absolutely no way we can squeeze in one more thing.

Another reason that I am sorting through clothes once again is that I have to plan ahead on pants to wear. I have to get most of my pants modified to fit over my prosthesis—the majority of pants right off the shelf don’t work.  So I have to plan ahead so that when I need the next smaller size of pants, I have what I need already for me hanging in the closet. 

Our closets are sort of poetic representations of our lives.  We stuff so many activities into our schedule that we don’t have time for one more thing.  If an emergency or last minute request comes in we have no way to handle because we are already maxed out.  And forget about having any time left to just sit quietly and reflect on our lives for a little bit.  “I have too much to do to just sit around and do nothing!”

I would suggest that our lives would be simpler and much more productive if we cleaned out our schedules like we clean out our closets.  Get rid of activities that no longer really fit who you are.  Are there things that you would like to be doing but just don’t have the time?  Perhaps you need to drop a few good things so you have room to do better, more important things?  One thing you should ask yourself is whether you current activities and things that consume your time truly reflect your values.  If they don’t it’s time to off-load!  Most of us don’t normally think along these lines.  Take some time to evaluate and do a bit of house cleaning!

Many of us feel guilty if we aren’t actively doing things every spare moment of the day.  And this carries over to our religious life as well.  We can get so busy doing for God that we don’t have time to spend with God and build our relationship with Him. 

In the bible, two sisters had Jesus over to their home.  A large group of people came over to listen to Jesus teach.  Martha was consumed with her hostess duties while her sister, Mary, dropped the chores she was doing and sat listening to Jesus teach.  Martha became frustrated at her sister and she asked Jesus to make Mary get up and help her get everything done; after all, taking care of a house full of guests is a lot of work for one person to do alone.  Listen to Jesus’ response:

Luke 10:41-42   “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

We get distracted by the things in our lives.  The more possessions we own, the more of our time they take up.  Our schedules get so packed that we don’t have time for God, friends and sometimes even family.  We trade the good for the better and the best, instead of the other way around.  We also can clutter our minds with old memories, unhealthy thoughts, grudges we nurse, and bad attitudes.  Imagine all of the emotional energy we could save if we just dump some of that junk!

I’ve found that unless we purposefully stop to evaluate our lives, we just won’t do it.  Sometimes an accident or an illness might force us to do so; but for many people, they just continue on with lives never even aware of the amount of junk they drag around with them. 


Take some time to clean your house, empty your closets and make room for something better!

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