Friday, March 14, 2014

Friday (3/14/2014)

Update: 

It took me a while to get mentally and physically organized on Thursday morning after being gone for the last three days.  One of the things that I’ve got to get back into is my exercise routine.  I haven’t done them since before I left.  While I got a constant workout on my arms and shoulders at the conference thanks to the wheelchair on carpet, I didn’t really have room or the time and energy to do anything with my legs and core muscles.  It is time to get it together and push it tomorrow. 

I had to go into the Police Department in Altoona to take care of some business on Thursday.  I was able to see a number of officers and spend some time getting to know the recently hired Lieutenant.  I am very thankful for my association with the Altoona and Fall Creek Police Departments as a volunteer Chaplain.  It is a privilege for me to serve our communities alongside of these fine officers. 

Our church hosted a blood drive on Thursday.  It never crossed my mind to try to give blood until I was at the church.  I found out that the Red Cross would take my blood and I was feeling fine; so I jumped up on the table and gave a unit of double red.   This winter has really hurt donations and the blood supply is low.  Did you know that despite all of our medical technology that we cannot manufacture blood?  We can’t produce it so the only way to get it is from people donating their blood.  I’d encourage you to go to http://www.redcross.org/blood and find a blood drive near you. 

I put a section of lamb’s wool inside my silicone liner where it had been causing an irritation on my leg and I haven’t itched after wearing it for almost 11 hours.  Yeah!  Actually I had planned to take it off earlier in the evening and sort of forgot that I even had it on.  When I get my prosthesis next week, I can only wear it as long as I can wear the silicone liner since it is a foundation piece, so this is good news.

My daughter Ruth and husband Cody from Chicago are coming home this weekend, it will be so good to see them.  They’ll be here Thursday night until Sunday afternoon.

Monday (3/17) at 9 a.m. I am scheduled to get my prosthetic leg and take my first steps.  On Monday afternoon, I am seeing a retina specialist about my vision problems.  I might undergo laser surgery to correct the problem.  My vision, especially in my right eye, has been very messed up making reading more difficult.  I am hoping that my vision will improve greatly with treatment.

With all my medical appointments lately I sort of feel like an old classic car that is being fixed up.  I just hope my wife doesn’t plan on selling me when I am fully restored!  Really thankful that I haven’t been towed to the junk yard yet!  Ha Ha!

Thought for the Day: 

“The Law of Human Behavior says, ‘Sooner or later we will get what we expect.’ Usually, the people who keep failing are the ones who expect to.  They’re like the pessimist whose tombstone epitaph read, ‘I expected this’”  [John Maxwell, The Difference Maker: Making Your Attitude Your Greatest Attribute].

After living in Wisconsin, I learned that “We see what we expect to see.”  When I first moved up here and I was riding in the car with someone, they’d say, “Oh, look at the deer!”  I would swivel my head trying to locate the deer but before I could find them, we’d have traveled well past where they stood.  This happened over and over to me.  I finally asked one of the guys I was riding with, “How do you do that?  How do you see deer all of the time and I never see them?”  He answered, “I look for them.”  Once I started looking, guess what I found?  Deer!  Wisconsin has an abundance and they love to come out into the fields near dusk.

This also works with people.  If you are in a relationship if you look for signs that your partner doesn’t love you—you can amass lots of evidence; however, in that same relationship you can also look for signs that your partner loves you—you can find evidence of that too!  At work, you can look for signs of your boss’ incompetence and usually find confirmation.  At election time, we can find evidence that the candidate that we don’t like is immoral, ignorant, and perhaps downright evil while ignoring many of those same traits in our favored candidate. 

This is also true of success and failure.  If we believe that we will fail at a task, it often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.  Believing that we will succeed isn’t a guarantee of success; but at least we stand a chance of making it happen.  That’s why Olympic athletes visual successfully completing their routines and don’t dwell on their past failures.

Controlling our thinking is something that we are usually not very good at.  Most of us allow any thought to pop into our minds and then we dwell upon it.  Any thought that we continually focus upon grows in our minds and can easily become all consuming.  Think about the last time you got angry at someone.  Later in the day, the memory of what they did comes to mind and the anger and negative emotions come flooding back in.  If you keep thinking about it, your anger grows and can consume the rest of your waking thoughts.  But you and I have a choice.  We can choose whether or not to continue to dwell on a certain thought.  We can replace unwanted thoughts with positive and helpful thoughts.  If you’ve ever been on a diet you have to do this to survive or cravings for that chocolate cupcake will drive you stark raving mad!!! 

2 Corinthians 10:5    “…we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”



So what are you dwelling upon?  Do you have an optimistic outlook on your day or do you dread going into work?  You can choose whatever viewpoint that serves you best.  Every day you get to choose again.  You can establish a pattern to your thinking.  Maybe you tend to be pessimistic and negative.  Over time you can change your thought pattern and typical outlook.   Choose wisely and don’t let random thoughts control your destiny.  You decide what kind of day you are going to have (sometimes despite what is happening around you).  People often comment on my positive attitude.  I could choose to be negative and downcast about everything that has happened to me and my long-term future; but all that would is make everything worse and harder to handle.  I’m choosing the high road of optimism and hope.  I look for the blessings in everything that happens.  Yeah, sometimes I end up being disappointed; but I am much happier and content this way.  I like the Latin phrase, ‘Carpe Diem’ meaning ‘Seize the Day.’  I usually to slam a smiley face in between the two words and interpret that to mean “Seize a Happy Day.” 


Carpe :-) Diem!

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