Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Tuesday (8/12/2014

Update:

On Monday, the rain stopped just in time for me to load myself into my truck to get to my appointment without getting wet.  My primary physician was very pleased with my progress so far.  So pleased in fact that he didn’t even schedule another appointment for me to come back in a few months—just a word to contact him if something comes up.  I was sent to the lab for some blood and urine samples.  If everything comes back alright (and we suspect that it will) then I’m good for another six months until the next blood work needs to be done.  That is encouraging news!

Karen and I got the shopping done and loaded our personal groceries into my truck for me to take home and she went back to the theatre.  I faced the challenge of getting the groceries inside by myself while I’m in the wheelchair.  I loaded my wheelchair up pretty heavily with groceries and had to take four trips up the ramp to get everything in.  My arms were tired after pulling myself up the ramp four times!  I was glad to get everything put away and have some time to relax.  The one trip up the ramp that I was most worried about was balancing the box of eggs from Sam’s Club on my lap as I wheeled myself up the ramp.  I was worried about the box slipping off and creating a reenactment of Humpy-Dumpty.  Despite my concern, the eggs arrived safely inside.  All the other groceries, I put in bags and hung them from the handles of the wheelchair.  It worked well but the bags were heavy enough that going up the ramp, I had to lean far forward to keep from rocking backwards because of the center of balance being changed.

I emailed my prosthetist with some questions about using my prosthesis again.  How healed does my leg need to be to start wearing my prosthetic leg again?  My leg is slightly larger in the calf area since I haven’t been wearing my leg each day, so how do I get it to fit back inside my prosthesis?  This is all new territory for me, so I am getting a little “on-the-job training.”  Oh, the things that I never imagined that you needed to know!  I just scheduled an appointment with my prosthetist on Thursday morning to help answer my questions.  Nice!

This morning I saw a photo of a little 2-3 year old girl with a prosthetic leg playing on the beach.  I thought, “Wow! I wonder how many different sized legs she’ll need as she grows up?”  I struggle trying to explain to my prosthetist what I am experiencing at times, how does it work if the patient is a little kid?  Once again I am reminded that the challenges that I face are rather small and relatively inconsequential in comparison.

I ended the day by talking to my daughter, Ruth, on the phone.  She and her husband will be home for the weekend.  I look forward to seeing her again.

Thought for the Day:

One of the books I am currently reading is “When God Winks At You” by Squire Rushnell.  The book is subtitled, “How God speaks directly to you through the power of coincidence.”  I’m not entirely sold on the book but the author raises some valid points.  In his chapter on unanswered prayer, Rushnell states that God uses unanswered prayer and the coincidences that happen after that to change our direction or to give us something better than we prayed for.  His premise is that we shouldn’t be upset or discouraged when our prayers aren’t answered because God is working behind the scenes to give us something we haven’t thought of or never dreamed would happen. 

If we are emotionally disturbed by not getting what we want, we might entirely miss what God had in store for us instead.   Rushnell quotes John Wooden, an unparalleled successful college basketball coach, as saying “Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.”

The thing about coincidence is that we don’t often see what is happening and how things have turned out for the best until we have the clarity of hindsight.  We may stare discouragement, disappointment, or heartbreak in the face as we are traveling through the experience.  It isn’t until later (sometimes much later) that we find out that it really was all going to work out for out good in the end. 

I’ve stated it before and I still believe it that on this side of my hospitalization and amputation that wouldn’t go back to having two whole legs if it meant giving up what I’ve gained through the process.  What I have gained from this life-changing event is well worth the cost I paid.  I had four things that I had been praying for quite some time that I didn’t see how they could ever be answered without God doing a miracle.  All God had to do was to take my leg and those four prayers were answered.  Certainly not in the fashion I had prayed for; but by a surprising unexpected twist of fate.

So let’s not get too bent out of shape because things are not progressing the way we envisioned them.  Let’s not lose hope or despair over an apparent lack of success; better days might just be right around the corner.  Without some of the setbacks that we have faced, we wouldn’t be in a position to take advantage of the opportunities about to come our way.


For believers, we aren’t relying upon the fickle finger of fate; we are trusting in the strong arm of our loving Heavenly Father.   Be at peace.  Maintain your hope and trust in Him at all times no matter how bleak things might currently seem.  

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