Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Tuesday (5/27/2014)

Update:

What a lovely weekend!  I enjoyed it so much.  I’ve always like springtime but this year it is especially precious to me.  After nearly losing my life on Thanksgiving Day 2013, each new day and each new experience has been a gift to me that I truly appreciate. (PHOTO: Taking my first walk after amputation—December 2013). Being able to get up, get around, get out and enjoy each day is just such a blessing.  There are some days that I’ve enjoyed more than others; however even my “bad” days are pretty sweet when I compare them to the alternative!  

I enjoyed having my daughter, Ruth, and her husband, Cody, home from Chicago for the weekend.  Saturday was spent with the family one way or another.  Jon helped me get the Touring model (2 seat) ATV out of storage and ready to sell—that got finalized on Sunday afternoon.  I am still amazed at the circumstances of finding the buyer.  That was a cool reminder to me of God at work behind the scenes to make things happen.  I had just decided that I should sell the ATV when I spent a few minutes chatting with a friend who made a chance comment about looking for a very specific ATV; and it was an EXACT description of my ATV!  No ads.  No phone calls.  No selling.  Just sold.  Wow! 

We had a lovely family dinner on Saturday night where we got to spend time enjoying one another’s company.  The Memorial Day service on Monday was beautiful.  Best weather we’ve had in years.  And for the first time anyone can remember, a train came through during the middle of the parade.  Half of the parade made it across before the train came.  The remaining half had a few minutes waiting for the train to go through before crossing the tracks and finishing the route.  We were just glad that it wasn’t one of those trains that stops and blocks the crossing and then slowly backs up.    “To those who courageously gave their lives…and those who bravely fight today…Thank you!”

The only difficulty that I faced this weekend was a side effect of a very positive thing.  With my current diet (ahem…lifestyle change) I’m losing weight.  Yeah!  That also means that my residual limb has shrunk and my prosthesis doesn’t fit correctly.  On Saturday afternoon, I started getting terrible pain when I walked.  Getting off the leg stopped the pain.  Sunday morning about halfway through church the pain returned.  On Monday I put my prosthetic leg on for the memorial service (only walked about 30 steps) and then came home and got in the wheelchair for the rest of the day.  On Tuesday, I’ll try to get an appointment to get my prosthesis adjusted so I can walk again.  I am certain that since my leg shrunk, I am sinking lower into the prosthesis and it is not supporting my weight correctly.  It was a bit of a bummer not being able to get out and walk this weekend; but it is what it is.  Each day an adventure!

On Monday, my wife and I spent the day together.  After the memorial service, we went in to see a movie and then brought some food home to enjoy.  It was a pleasant, restful day made better by being together.

Thought for the Day:  

Earlier last week, I got a quick start on my Sunday message and then as Sunday drew near I got “writer’s block.”  I spent hours staring at the computer and could not for the life of me get more than a word or two added to my message.  After spending three very unproductive hours early on Saturday morning, I decided to give it up to God and just go have fun with the family.  I HATE going into Sunday unprepared and not having every word planned out; but this was one of those weeks where it would not come.  So I was left to pray that God would rescue me and He would all work out.  It was the proverbial “Hail Mary” pass.   

I had decided to begin a sermon series on the book of James.  So Sunday’s text was James 1:1-4.

James 1:2-4   Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

This definitely is a topic that I and a number of other people in my church have some first-hand experience in after this past year.  My illness and amputation; my friend losing the use of his legs and learning to live with extreme pain; one woman who spent over 90 days in the hospital or in a nursing home; another woman who in a quick series of events spent about 60 days hospitalized, along with multiple people who experienced the death of a loved one, the loss of a job, injury or illness, etc. 

Here are a few excerpts from the message that ended up turning out very well (Thank You, Jesus!).

“Whenever you face trials” that’s not “if”; it’s “when.”  We should expect trials and difficulties; not be shocked or surprised at their appearance.  They come at unexpected times but we know they are coming. 

“Any trial can constitute a test of our faith, namely, a temptation to cease trusting and obeying God.” [Thomas Constable].

"Testing" implies demonstrating the true quality of something when it undergoes a trial.  Just as refining fires bring out the true quality of gold; so our trials help reveal our true character.

“Our values determine our evaluations.  If we value comfort more than character, then trials will upset us.  If we value the material and physical more than the spiritual, we will not be able to ‘count it all joy.’  If we live only for the present and forget the future, then trials will make us bitter, not better.”   [Warren Wiersbe].

Trials are designed to stimulate growth and develop our faith.  If we understand that God’s purpose in allowing trials to touch our lives is for us to grow and mature in our faith, then they are easier to accept and even appreciate what they are accomplishing. 

When you join the football team, it isn’t just about Friday night lights, dating cheerleaders, wearing a uniform and earning a letter so you can wear a cool jacket.  There are practices.  Lots of sweat and energy is expended night after night as the coach drills the team.  Imagine the attitude of the players if they don’t understand what the practice is supposed to accomplish.  They are going to have bad attitudes, grumble and complain.  But if they understand what the benefits are (better players—better team), they enter into the practices with a better attitude and put more of their heart and soul into them.  There might be moans and groans as coach introduces the next exercise or tells them to run another lap, but if you remember it will make you a better ball player--you dig deep and put a little more effort into it.    So it is with the trials we face.  It is not about God punishing us for wrongdoings.  He is trying to bring out the best in us.  Refine our skills.  Toughen us up for the game of life.   

Trials then enable us to progress in our Christian faith, strengthening it, refining it, developing it, allowing us to stand up under further trials more capably.  This progression is our maturing in the faith.  Consequently we should not try to escape from trials but submit to the maturing process with patient endurance and joy.

That is why I am taking each day one step at a time.  I’m trying not to let anything get me down, since ultimately no matter what life dishes out—God can use it to make me a better, stronger person.  I’m not asking for trouble and I wouldn’t recommend that you pray for difficulties to come your way (life will bring enough of them your direction anyway); but when they come, understand what they can accomplish in your life and “count it all joy.”

Romans 5:3-4   “Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”  

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