Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Wednesday (5/28/2014)

Update:

Thankfully I was able to get an appointment with my prosthetist, Leah, on Tuesday afternoon and she made the necessary adjustments so that I am comfortable walking once again.  As long as I am losing weight, I will most likely need regular adjustments made to my prosthesis.  It is rather amazing how quickly a few pounds lost effects the size of my stump and thus the fit of my prosthesis; I wish it would reduce the size of my gut as quickly and efficiently!

I am midway through my second week on my diet.  About a week ago my need for insulin plummeted.  For the last five days, I’ve not had to take any insulin at all and my glucose readings stay in the 90’s.  I have been eating a healthy diet for some time now; but just recently drastically reduced the amount of food I am eating and even cutting out healthy snacks between meals; that has made a dramatic difference.  The first week of the diet I felt hungry much of the time.  Now I don’t have those kinds of hunger pains—it is more mental.  I want something to snack on.  I want to eat for the sake of eating.  My stomach has been shrinking because now just a small amount of food satisfies me and I am training myself to immediately stop eating when I feel full.  I can keep doing this—it’s all a mental battle for me.  I am choosing to restrict my food intake and its working.  I must admit that it has taken me years to get to this point both mentally and physically.  Over the last year I’ve made major dietary changes through a series of stages; so it is not like I suddenly decided to stop eating cold turkey (actually that sounds pretty yummy right now); it has been a long time coming.  I’ve got about 50 pounds to lose, so I’ll be traveling this road for some time.   But I am making progress.

After my appointment, my daughter, Kate, went with me to Chippewa Valley Growers (a local nursery) to pick out some flowers to plant at my house.  I have a couple of large pots that I am not using and decided that flowers would be pretty outside the front door.  I know my wife will appreciate them.  At the nursery, the floor is covered with that black cloth weed barrier.  At first glance, the floor looks nice and even.  Trying to walk on it with my prosthesis, I found out that it is not. 

It actually gave me a good workout walking through the greenhouses (of course the flowers that I wanted where in the last one).  With the floor all black, I couldn’t get a lot of visually clues, so it was good practice stepping out in faith and using my focused attention to continue to walk well.  Since my ankle only bends with pressure and I don’t get the resistance and feedback of a normal foot; I have to tense my leg muscles and make them rigid for each step I take with my left leg.  That allows my weight to cause the ankle to flex.   If I don’t concentrate and do that, my knee is pushed way out of line as the ankle stays straight. I naturally stumble with the momentum of my knee headed downhill if I don’t concentrate of what I am doing.  I would guess that eventually I will be able to walk on uneven terrain without thinking about it.  But right now it takes a lot of energy and focused attention to walk on that kind of terrain.  I used to have to concentrate like that walking on a hard surface, but now I do it without much thought.  Stairs and ramps still take a bit more mental energy for me to traverse; but I’m getting there. Practice; practice; practice.

I have two identical silicone liners so that I can alternate their use.  While I am wearing the one, the other has a full 24 hours to air and dry out.  The problem has been in the morning I can’t remember which one I wore the night before.  Today I had the idea of placing a key tag on the liner that I am supposed to wear next.  Hopefully that will end my morning confusion.

Thought for the Day:

“Remember, it’s the finish, not the start, that counts the most in life” [John Maxwell, Sometimes You Win…Sometimes You Learn].

That phrase really got me to stop and think.  It is how you finish that counts the most in life.  It is not how you began.  It is not how you did in the middle of your race.  It is how you crossed the finish line that counts the most.

Many of us didn’t have the best starts in life.  Circumstances, health, family issues, all conspired against us so that we may have started out a little behind the eight ball.  An example for me is grade school.  About the third grade I hit a rough patch.  Until that point, school was fun and enjoyable but then they had to go and introduce the times table (1 x 1 = 1; 2 x 1 = 2, etc.).  Not only did they want me to understand the table—they wanted me to memorize it!  That began my downward spiral which made me despise going to school.  I got behind and then struggled to keep up with the class and my grades suffered.  It wasn’t until about the eighth grade that I finally climbed back up on top and began to like school again.  Freshman year algebra almost did me in, but through hard work and many hours of toil I managed to raise my grade from an F to a B by the end of the year.  Since then I’ve managed to earn a Bachelor and Master degree and complete some coursework at the Doctorate level.

When I think about the family dynamic that many people were raised under, I am amazed how great they have turned out as adults.   Then again, “Remember, it’s the finish, not the start, that counts the most in life.”  By the choices that people have made, along with hard work, determination, and faith—many have turned their lives around and established themselves as good, hardworking, dependable folks. 

Some people had the luxury of growing up in a solid, bible-believing, church-going family.  From a young age they were taught about godly character and living a pleasing lifestyle before God.  Others come from totally heathen backgrounds never hearing the name of God mentioned unless it was involved in swearing.  No matter where we start from—all that is is a beginning, not our final destination.  Who we were in the past does not equal who we presently are or even who we will become.

“Remember, it’s the finish, not the start, that counts the most in life.”

That phrase also reminds me that no one can rest on their laurels.  When it comes to judging a life, we don’t just look at the last day;  we don’t just look at the major accomplishments decades in the past--we look long term and what they have done recently.  It is not just whether that person has led a good life or accomplished something some time in their lives; it is whether they are continuing to live in that manner.  Are they still accomplishing good?  You cannot look back 15 or 20 years and say, “Well, I used to…”.  There needs to be a consistency that flows from now until the finish line.

1 Corinthians 9:24-27    “Don't you realize that in a race everyone runs, but only one person gets the prize? So run to win!  All athletes are disciplined in their training. They do it to win a prize that will fade away, but we do it for an eternal prize.  So I run with purpose in every step. I am not just shadowboxing. I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should. Otherwise, I fear that after preaching to others I myself might be disqualified.” (NLT)


I am encouraged by that phrase because no matter where I am at this point and time, I can choose live my life from this point forward in a prize-winning fashion.  It is never too late to start.  Whether that is being a better spouse, a better parent, a better child, a better friend, a better employee, a better person, or a better Christian.  Start training now so that you run the race with endurance and finish strong.

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