Friday, June 27, 2014

Friday & Saturday (6/27 & 6/28/2014)

Update:

I’ve decided that Thursdays are my official “I need a break from exercise” days.  I’ve been riding my bike about 5 miles (45 minutes) and exercising (45-60 minutes) five or six times a week, so taking a little rest break is good!  I did ride my bicycle to work and back, but other than that, I didn’t do any other exercises or workout on Thursday.  Besides my muscles were still not happy with me from what I did to them on Wednesday evening!!

I was disappointed that this week when I weighed in I had actually gained 1.6 pounds.  After all the workouts and portion control on my meals I was disappointed; but my wife reminded me that I am adding muscle mass while losing the fat. So I probably gained weight in muscle mass while I lost body fat.  If the fat is disappearing, so I am content with that.  I wore a pair of jeans yesterday that use to be snug around the waist; now without a belt they would have fallen off of me.  So it’s working!

My buddy, Mel, felt well enough to come by for a visit at my office on Thursday.  That made me so happy to see him out and about.  I’m hope for more days like that for him and his wife.  Mel has faced a series of ups and downs after an accident last summer left him paralyzed from the waist down.  Go Mel!!

I really enjoyed spreading my work out on two monitors at church. That was so helpful, thanks again Corey for getting my new computer up and running.  My wife and I were laughing about the fact that when my children see my new computer set up at church, they will know that someone else set it up for me.  “Warning! Old Man with Technology!”  As long as it works, I’m fine—otherwise, call in the support team.

By the time I got home from work and the appointments that I had on Thursday, I was worn out.   After dinner, I spent a few minutes watering the flowers and getting the recycling ready for pickup on Friday morning and then I sat down to read.  I didn’t get through but a couple of pages before I got sleepy and started getting ready for bed.  It was lights out for me by 9:30 p.m.

Friday was a busy day for me and I never got to finish my Update and Thought, and Saturday will be busy for me as well; so I decided to combine Friday and Saturday’s Update into one and get it sent out. 

Friday morning started with a meeting that went until after noon.  I got several phone calls while I was grabbing a quick lunch and construction began at the church today.  Construction workers dug out the two addition locations and poured the footers today.  The concrete truck got stuck in the yard.  Big piles of dirt everywhere (actually mud not dirt).  Sidewalk to the front entrance is gone!  Lots of things to distract me today!  I struggled working on my sermon all day and haven’t finished it yet.  So that is Saturday morning’s project along with typing the notes from Friday’s meeting before I have another meeting on Saturday afternoon.  I look forward to Saturday at 6 p.m. when both my wife and I will be off work and get to spend some time together. 

All this and my leg continues to work beautifully.  On Friday I did a lot of walking in the grass (uneven terrain is very taxing) and everything was still fine.  I am back to making progress on my walking skills again since I am mobile once more.

Thought for the Day: 

“Courage is not something that you already have that makes you brave when tough times start.  Courage is what you earn when you’ve been through the tough times and you discover they aren’t so tough after all.”  [Malcolm Gladwell, David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants].

In his book, Gladwell recounts the discovery that in London at the beginning of World War 2 that residents were afraid of the impending bombing of the city by the Germans.  But as night after night, the bombs fell something happened in the hearts of Londoners.  When they first climbed out of the shelters unscathed, they were exhilarated.  Then as they continued to emerge without a scratch, they became bold and courageous. 

He says that people are “also prone to be afraid of being afraid.”  For example we dread going to the dentist because we are afraid of the pain.  After our visit, we discover that we had over exaggerated our fear—the pain was not as bad as we expected.  When we live through events that caused us fear beforehand and find out that we are fine, what happens then?  “The conquering of fear produces exhilaration.  And the contrast between the previous apprehension and the present relief and feeling of security promotes a self-confidence that is the very father and mother of courage.” [Malcolm Gladwell].

I remember while I was in the hospital there was a procedure that I was terrified of undergoing.  I didn't have that much experience with medical procedures anyway and they were going to shove a camera down my throat to take some “photos” of my heart valves while I was lying down with my head lower than the rest of my body.  The thought of having my leg amputated wasn’t as frightening as this procedure was to me.  My wife and the nurses helped calm me down enough to undergo the procedure and while it was uncomfortable, it certainly wasn’t as bad as I had imagined beforehand.  Once I made it through that, I really wasn’t too worried about anything else they wanted to do to me.  Comparatively, it seemed easy.

What about you?  What tough times have you made it through?  Do you remember how anxious you were beforehand and now that you’ve made, it has changed your perspective?  “That wasn’t so bad.  I could do that again.”  If you think back over the course of your life, there might be dozens of events like that for you.

What should we learn from all of this?  We shouldn’t let fear hold us back from something new or different.  Fear shouldn’t immobilize us.  We should step forward in courage based upon our past life experiences.  We may have been wounded or knocked down sometimes; but we weren’t destroyed and taken out.

Be wise in the battles that you choose; but don’t allow fear alone to stop you in your tracks.  Even the Cowardly Lion learned to stand up and be courageous.  “Wait, I hear singing…’If I was King of the Forest…’”


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