Friday, October 17, 2014

Friday (10/17/2014)

Thought for the Day:

John Maxwell, in his book “Encouragement Changes Everything,” tells the story of Sir Earnest Shackleton who set out to sea in 1914 to attempt the first land crossing of Antarctica.  His ship never arrived having become stuck in the ice for months and eventually sank.   Shackleton and his twenty-seven man crew were stranded 1,200 miles from civilization and drifted on ice floes in the terrifying cold with limited provisions.  Eventually they reached a small island.  Shackleton and a few other men took a lifeboat over 800 miles to a whaling station and returned with a rescue ship.  Every single person survived the eighteen month ordeal mainly due to Shackleton’s constant encouragement and leadership.

“It was Napoleon who said that a leader is a dealer in hope, and Shackleton was a prime example of how one person can keep hope alive.  If you know someone who is in the middle of a difficult trial—a long illness or a period of financial strain—your words of kindness and love, your confidence in them, your ability to lighten their load can bring hope and encouragement to their lives.”  [John Maxwell, Encouragement Changes Everything].

Everyone is lifted up and strengthened in their resolve by encouragement.  Encouragement can give you new energy when you are tired.  It can give you hope to carry on when you are discouraged.  Encouragement can help you achieve what is seemingly impossible.  Encouragement can change your attitude and your outlook.  Encouragement really does change everything.

So we should constantly be monitoring our communication with other people.  “Am I encouraging them or am I discouraging them?”  We should always be asking ourselves how we can encourage those we come in contact with.

A simple word, a text, a tweet, a card, a call, a touch, or a look might be all that someone needs to get through today.  If we look for it, there is always something we can complement someone else for.  Their performance doesn’t have to be perfect to earn a bit of praise. 

Encouragement is something that we can learn to do if we desire.  Some people are natural encouragers; others of us have to work at it.  Like any other task, we get better at it when we practice. 



So make it your goal to encourage at least one person each day. 



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